
 
other  relatives,  poor  or  needy  present,  muslim 
are told to speak to them in an honourable way; 
d)  in  Q.s.  33:  32,  while  addressing  the  noble 
wives  of  prophet  Muhammad,  the  wives  were 
commanded  to  talk  appropriately  when  they 
happen to converse with men. 
3)  Qaulan  Baligha  in  Q.s  An-Nisa:  63.  Qaulan 
baligha interpreted as an eloquent speech or the 
right,  the  meaning  is  clear,  bright,  and  reveals 
exactly what she want sorcan also be interpreted 
as  saying  that  in  terms  of  words  correct.  And 
when  viewed  in  terms  of  goals  or  domains  it 
touches can be interpreted as an effective speech.  
4)  Qaulan  maysura  in  Q.s  Al-Isra:  28.  Qaulan 
maysura means an easy word. It is mean that as a 
greeting that  makes other people feel easy, soft 
tone, beautiful, fun, smooth, gentle and good, as 
well as provide a sense of optimism for people to 
talk to. Easy means of communicative language 
that  is  understandable  and  contains  words  that 
encourage others to continue to have hope. Soft 
words are words that use the phrase and say with 
reasonable  or feasible. While  that is gentle and 
refined  good  speech  that  did  not  make  other 
people upset tau offended.  
5)  Qaulan  layyina  in  Q.s  Thaha:  44.  This  term 
means gently speech  which touch the heart and 
pull  to  receive  religious  proselytizing.  Ibnu 
Katsir said layyinan  is satire words.  Al-Zuhaily 
said  “Then  say  to  him  (Pharaoh)  by  gently 
speech  (fraternal)  and  sweet  to  hear,  did  not 
show  the  violence  and  encourage  him  with 
gentleness  words  in  order  to  more  intersted 
because  he  will  feel  afraid  with  the  God 
punishment through his tongue”. The purpose of 
this  is  Moses  and  Harun  leave  coarse  attitude. 
The  order  to  say  by  gently  also  written  in  al-
Hujurat:  2,  Luqman:  19  and  an-Nisaa:  158. 
Shortly, the prohibition to say loudly words, the 
prohibition to say bad words, and the command 
to say soft words.  With gentleness that there will 
be a communication that will impact the contents 
absorbed  by people  saying  they're  talking  to  so 
that  it  will  happen  not  only  information  but 
nevertheless  arrival  will  change  the  views, 
attitudes and behaviors of people who talk to.  
6)  Qaulan  Karima  in  Q.s  al-Isra:  23.    Qaulan 
karima  means  noble  word.  A  noble  word  is  a 
word  which  gives  respect  and  honor  to  the 
person who we talk to.  “Thy Lord hath decreed 
that ye worship none but him, and that ye be kind 
to  parents.  Whether  one  or  both  of  them  attain 
old age In Thy  life,  say not to them a word  of 
contempt,  nor  repel  them,  but  address  them  In 
terms of honor”. (QS. Al-Isra: 23)  
7)  In  this  case  to  say  “ah”  to  parents  is  prohibited 
by  religion,  moreover  say  the  words  or  treated 
them  more  harshly  than  that.  From  above 
definitions,  the characteristic of  polite language 
according  to  six  principles  are  the  words  that 
have  a value: 1)  the  truth, 2)  fairness,  honesty,  
3)  justice,  4)  good,  5)  straight,  6)  smooth,  7) 
polite,  8)  deserve,  9)  awards,  10)  solemn,  11) 
optimistic, 12) beautiful, 13) fun, 14) logical,15) 
eloquently, 16)  light,  17)  right, 18) touches  the 
heart,  19)  aligned, 20)  is  impressive,  21)  quiet, 
22)  effectively, 23)  soft, 24) philanthropist, 25) 
the meek, 26) humility. 
2.4.2  Prophetic Model of Communication 
Prophet Muhammad p.b.u.h. in communication with 
his companions r.a. appliying communication styles 
which  should  be  followed  by  each  individual  who 
intent to guide others to become useful human in this 
world and the afterlife (Jaafar & Tamuri, 2012). The 
Prophetic communication styles, namely to cite the 
general  before  the  specific,  deliver  lessons  clearly, 
smoothly  and  completely,  insert  a  word  of  advice, 
make  the  analogy  and  comparison,  inserting 
humour, use the non-verbal communication and call 
others  with  respectable  calling  (Ghuddah,  2001; 
(Ulwan,  1968);  (al-Hammadi,  1987);  (al-Suwaid, 
1988); (Jasmi & Tamuri, 2007); (al-Nahlawi, 1979); 
(Saaran, 2010). 
1)  Citing  the  general  before  the  specific:  this 
method  is  known  as  the  deductive  style.  It  is 
more  widely  used in  the  classical or  traditional 
knowledge  compared  with  modern  knowledge 
which  use  more  inductive  style.  The  Prophet 
p.b.u.h.  also  uses  this  method  during  his 
preachings  and  teachings  to  his  companions. 
Hadith  narrated  by  al-Hakim  (al-Mustadrak, 
1990,  hadith  number  7846)  that  the  Prophet 
p.b.u.h.  states  which  means    “Grab  five  things 
before  five  things  to  come:  our  youthful  time 
before our old days, our healthy moment before 
our  sick  days,  our  rich  time  before  our  poor 
days, our leisure time before our busy schedules 
and  our  existence  before  our  death”.  Thus, 
educational  leader  should  start  communication 
with his colleague by relating the outline of what 
will be discuss, and later to decide  in  sequence 
the  content  according  to  the  outline  given  to 
collegeau earlier.  This style also helps the mind 
to  process  the  data  to  be  received  so  that 
audiences can understand and remember what is 
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