Indonesia want to reduce or prevent the divorce 
which contradict with the Indonesia Marriage Law 
purpose. 
The degradation of social values which is 
happening in Indonesian society makes the number of 
divorce case increase and become higher than before. 
Because of the social development there is a mutation 
of reasons of divorce. In many cases the court 
approve the divorce proposal with reasons which are 
not in Indonesia Marriage law. 
In the court process the existence of mediation as 
an attempt to prevent divorce is so important. 
Furthermore the role of mediator in trial process is 
also important to make the husband and wife who 
want to have a divorce to re-think again about their 
plan to have a divorce. The role of mediator is 
expected to manage and create a win-win solution to 
solve the husband and wife problem so the husband 
and wife agree to not have a divorce. But if we see the 
number of divorce case which is increasing constantly 
we can assume that the government purpose to 
suppress the number of divorce case is not success.  
Although marriage is seen as physical and 
spiritual bond between the husband and wife, there is 
still high number of divorce case which basically 
contradict to the definition and the purpose of the 
marriage itself. The following questions will be 
answered through this research by analysing how the 
society see the meaning and goal of a marriage, what 
is the common reason of society to have a divorce, 
and how the role of mediator in mediation process 
based on the response of society member who are 
facing trial of divorce case in The Religious Court of 
Medan. 
2 RESEARCH METHODOLOGY 
A normative legal research and an empirical approach 
were used in this research by focusing on the primary 
data which was supported by secondary and tertiary 
data to analyze how the implementation or the 
actualization of positive law in certain law 
phenomenon. This focus is to make sure whether the 
result of implementation of the positive in society life 
is suitable with the law purpose or not based on its 
specifications, it is categorized as an normative 
empirical research the data that used in this research 
was collected through direct observation and 
interview to the society members who are facing the 
divorce case in The Religious Court of Medan 
(Medan Religion Court).  
3 RESULT AND DISCUSSION 
3.1 Personal Comprehension of Society 
Members Who Had Filed a Divorce 
Lawsuit to the Religious Court of 
Medan Regarding the Significance 
of Marriage Pursuant to the Law of 
Republic Indonesia Act Number 1 
of the Year 1974 on Marriage and 
the Islamic law Compilation 
The definition of marriage in pursuance of the first 
article on Marriage Law No. 1 of 1974 is as stated 
“Marriage is a physical and spiritual bond between a 
man and a woman as husband and wife, having the 
purpose of establishing a happy and lasting family 
founded on the Belief in God Almighty.” Concerning 
the interpretation of the law, it was mentioned that a 
marriage is a physical and spiritual bond, marriage is 
not only seen as an outward bond, but mental bond as 
well. Hence emphasizing that marriage holds more 
meaning than merely a connection physically but also 
spiritually between the two parties. A physical bond 
could be defined as a visible bond between the 
husband and the wife and a spiritual bond is an 
invisible bond perceived by only the pair. If this inner 
bond does not exist in a marriage, the marriage can be 
equated with an inert body.  
The second essential meaning of marriage 
pertaining to the intention of marriage, is to establish 
a happy and eternal family. The word “bond” has 
been defined as “a binding relationship” according to 
the Great Dictionary of the Indonesian Language of 
the Language Center (abbreviated in English and 
Indonesian as KBBI) as the official dictionary of the 
Indonesian Language. Whereas the word “lasting” in 
KBBI means “to remain, does not shift for eternity”. 
It can be concluded that a happy and lasting family is 
an eternal bond that remains forever.  
Both of fore mentioned essential meanings are 
related to the third, that is “founded on the Belief in 
God Almighty”. Aurelius Augustinus (354-430) 
acknowledges the natural processes of the universe 
take place according to God’s plan. The law 
originated from God is termed as “Lex Aeterna” (the 
eternal law). It should be understood that if the 
husband and the wife carry out all their rights and 
obligations according to the teachings of their 
religion. Because all religions basically teach 
goodness and virtue. 
Based on data obtained through interviews with 
30 respondents present at the Religious court of 
Medan, it was found that 90% (27 people) regarded