father's appeal and refused to order the children's 
return to the mother. Court of Appeal Simon Brown, 
Ward and Sedley LJJ explained at p.193: 
“It was necessary to establish why the child objected 
to returning to Spain, her age and degree of maturity 
and,  considering  the  strength  and  validity  of  the 
child's  views,  whether  it  was  appropriate  to  take 
account of her objections. A review of the evidence 
from  doctors,  of  the  child's  own  letters,  of  oral 
evidence  on  her  maturity  and  objections,  and  of 
additional evidence as to her state of mind, led to the 
conclusion that the child was fearful of returning due 
to  her  mother's drink problem,  that  she was mature 
beyond her years given the burdens that she had had 
to carry and that, although coloured by her father's 
hostility  to  her  mother,  her  views  were  genuine,  as 
was demonstrated by the consistency of her approach 
and the expressions of love for the mother contained 
in correspondence. In all the circumstances the court 
was compelled to take account of the child's clear and 
reasoned views. In deciding whether to exercise the 
discretion  to  refuse  to  order  the  child's  return,  the 
spirit and purpose of the Convention also had  to be 
considered,  but  in  this  case  did  not  override  the 
respect to be paid to the child's wishes. Regarding the 
younger child, the evidence was sufficiently clear and 
compelling to conclude that he would be placed in an 
intolerable situation if he were to be returned to Spain 
alone.  The  two  children  had  been  through  difficult 
times together; the younger child had been dependent 
on his sister and she had acted as his 'little mother' at 
times.” 
Although  the  judges  in  the  case  considered  the 
views of the children, the court did emphasize on the 
father a duty to mend the broken bridges in the family 
and  to have  the  parental  bond  and contact  with the 
children and mother continued. Ross Mackay (2005) 
supports that the process of separation can take a toll 
on the mental health of separating parents, which can 
in turn impair the quality of parenting. 
Following the case of Re W (Abduction: Child's 
Objections)  [2010]  2  FLR  1165,  wherein  the 
relationship  between  the  parents  was  troubled,  and 
marked  by  occasional  violence  and  problems  with 
drink, for which each blamed  the other. Eventually, 
the mother secretly removed the three children from 
the  family  home  in  Ireland  and  brought  them  to 
England,  without  the  father's  consent.  The  father 
responded  by  travelling  to  England;  he  remained 
there  for  a  number  of  months,  obtaining  a  job  and 
attempting  to  salvage  his  relationship  with  the 
mother.  However,  a  trial  period  of  reconciliation 
ended  after  only  a  few  weeks,  following  another 
violent incident. The father then went back to Ireland 
and  applied  for  the  children's  return.  The  mother 
accepted  that  the  removal  had  been  wrongful,  but 
argued that the father had acquiesced in the children 
remaining in England, that there was a grave risk of 
harm to the children if they were to return to Ireland, 
and  that  it  was  appropriate  to  'take  account'  of  the 
objections of the children, now aged 8, 6 and 3, to a 
return to Ireland. The two older children spoke to the 
Children  and  Family  Court  Advisory  and  Support 
Service  (CAFCASS)  officer  together;  the  officer 
reported  that  the  children  had  given  a  believable 
account of violence by the father towards the mother 
and  towards  them,  and  had  told  her  that  they were 
frightened  of  the  father;  the  children  had  stated 
categorically  that  they  did  not  want  to  return  to 
Ireland, were upset at the prospect of doing so, and 
wanted, if it was necessary  to return, to move to an 
address far away from the father and unknown to him.     
The judge found that there was no acquiescence, but 
that the children had strong objections to a return and 
that the older two children were not too young to have 
their  views  considered.  Judge  concluded  that  she 
should  exercise her discretion not to  return  the two 
older  children,  and  that,  therefore,  as  the  youngest 
child would be placed in an intolerable position if he 
were  returned  alone,  none  of  children  should  be 
returned. The father sought leave to appeal, arguing 
that the views of the 6-year-old child should not have 
been  considered,  that the  evidence of  the  children's 
objections  was  in  any  event  too  thin,  and  that  the 
judge had failed to refer to various relevant factors at 
the  discretionary  stage  of  her  judgment.  The  court 
refused the leave to appeal.  The children objected to 
a  return  to  Ireland  and  it  was  appropriate  to  take 
account of their views. 
In Re R (Child Abduction: Acquiescence) [1995] 
1 FLR 716, 734, Millett LJ at p. 734 said, 'It is to be 
observed that, if a child is not of an age and degree of 
maturity which makes it appropriate to take his views 
into  account,  he  must  be  returned  despite  his 
objections  and  without  any  further  inquiry  whether 
his return is in his best interests. If, on the other hand, 
he is of sufficient age and maturity for his views to be 
taken into account, the Convention clearly envisages 
that he will not be returned against his wishes, unless 
there  are  countervailing  factors  which  require  his 
wishes to be overridden.' 
In  B v  K (Child  Abduction) [1993] 1  FCR 382, 
decided by Johnson J in October 1991, three children 
were removed from Germany. The judge held that a 
girl nearly 9 and a boy aged 7 had attained an age and 
a degree of maturity at which it was appropriate for 
him  to  take  account  of  their  views.  As  for  the 
youngest child, the court accepted the oral report from