into the struggle to recognize the standards that 
should be used to assess potential alternatives to 
perform in the child’s best interests. Mnookin’s then 
argued that (Alston, 1994): 
“The choice of criteria is inherently value laden; all too 
often there is no consensus about what values should inform 
this choice. These problems are not unique to children’s 
policies, but they are especially acute in this context 
because children themselves can’t speak for their own 
interests.”
 
From the discussion above about this principle, 
then it can be said that to implement the principle, 
case by case has to be assessed to find the criteria and 
determine what is best for the child. In case of 
divorce, the judge should look into the child’s views 
and aspirations, the child’s identity, personal history 
and background, the family environment, relations, 
situations of vulnerability, and so on. The morality 
and character of the party can be a consideration 
besides the financial ability to determine to whom the 
right of custody will be given. 
Furthermore, several principles or theories are 
considered important to determine the custody of a 
child, namely theory of justice, theory of certainty, 
and legal expediency (Alston, 1994). These theories 
are very essential but certainly it is not easy to apply 
them in balance. In practice, the judge will put the 
legal expediency at first to give legal protection for 
the child. This theory best fits the principle of best 
interest of the child. This theory relates to the growth 
and future of a child, therefore, a judge will consider 
the situation case by case to determine the custody of 
a child that will give benefit the child. The closeness 
of a child with his or her parents will be taken into 
consideration by the judges. 
The Act on Child Protection mentions that 
children are an inseparable part of sustainability of 
human life and the continuity of a nation and state. 
Therefore, every child needs to get the widest 
opportunity to grow and develop optimally 
physically, mentally, and socially. It is necessary to 
carry out  legal protection to provide children 
prosperity by guaranteeing the fulfilment of their 
rights without discriminatory treatment. Article 14 
states that in case a separation must happen between 
a child and the parents, each child is entitled: 
a.  to meet and have personal relationship 
permanently with the two parents; 
b.  to get parenting, maintenance, education, and 
protection for the growth process from both 
parents according to ability, talent, and his or her 
interest; 
c.  to obtain life funding from both parents; 
d.  to obtain other children’s rights. 
As an example, in a Court Decision Number 
312/Pdt.G/2014/PN.Mdn, the judge decided to give 
the right of custody to the mother. This case 
concerned the divorce of an Indonesian citizen with a 
Filipino citizen. Their marriage was held in the 
Philippines and has been registered in Indonesia so 
that it is valid under Indonesian law. The judge's 
consideration in this decision to give custody to his 
mother was based on the Marriage Act that, a divorce 
does not terminate the relationship of the child and his 
or her parents. Both father and mother are still obliged 
to educate and nurture their child that must be 
conducted for the best interest of the child. Regarding 
the problem that the parents were from different 
nations and had different citizenships, that 
consequently would live separately in different 
countries, and that their child still cannot decide 
herself with whom she or he would choose to live, the 
judges were in the opinion that for the best interest of 
the child who was still 1 year old and to get continuity 
of routine and regular care, the right of custody was 
given to one of the parents, namely the mother. 
In this case, the financial ability was not the only 
factor considered by the judges. The judges argued 
that the child needed special child care both 
physically and mentally. The fact in general shows 
that a one year old child who is still in the baby 
category, is very close to his or her mother, who had 
recently given birth and even still breastfed him or 
her. For this reason, the judges decided to give the 
right of custody to the mother who was Filipino 
Citizen until the child is 18 years old. This is also 
pursuant to a Court Decision Number 126 K/Pdt/2001 
on 28 August 2003 that stated that if there is a divorce, 
the underage child care should be left to people 
closest and familiar with the child, namely Mother. 
This Court Decision Number 
312/Pdt.G/2014/PN.Mdn also determined the 
frequency of meetings between the child and the 
father to maintain the relationship between the child 
and the father.  
5 CONCLUSION 
As a conclusion, there are several legal consequences 
emerge as a result of transnational marriage 
dissolution. Firstly, both parents still have civil 
relation with the child and they are still obliged to 
nurture and educate the child as well as they can. The 
living expenses shall be borne by the father, but the 
mother also can be responsible for this also when the 
father cannot fulfil the obligation. Secondly, the 
principle of the best interest of the child is prioritized